{"id":20345,"date":"2017-05-12T10:45:12","date_gmt":"2017-05-12T17:45:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/archive.healwithin.com\/?p=20345"},"modified":"2017-05-12T10:45:12","modified_gmt":"2017-05-12T17:45:12","slug":"loss-of-a-mother","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hw.arbpenconsulting.com\/?p=20345","title":{"rendered":"Loss of a Mother"},"content":{"rendered":"

Loss of a mother can hurt.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Last week as I was talking to a friend about mothers day,\u00a0she said: “I lost my mom 4 years ago.”<\/p>\n

Generally “loss” or “lost” is used to express something missing or someone’s passing. But in the world of mind-body connection and word association, the subconscious\u00a0mind does as you speak or instruct\u00a0it to do so.<\/p>\n

The words “loss or lost” mean that we lost it outside our control and we keep looking or searching to find and bring it back again. Grant it, the loss of a loved one is\u00a0huge and can be devastating. Yet, repeating the words re-create the same feeling over and over – thus, embedding the loss and sadness further into the subconscious\u00a0mind.<\/p>\n

I know there is no replacement for the grief<\/a>\u00a0you go through – what I share is not about the feelings, but how you express and speak what you feel<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Hypnotherapy<\/a> resolves problems by accessing the subconscious mind through hypnosis. All hypnotherapy is self-hypnosis\u00a0because you allow\u00a0yourself to drift into a trance state. I like to say we experience same just before we fall asleep\u00a0or,\u00a0when a child is held at the bosom\u00a0of her\/his\u00a0mother\u00a0and gently rocked\u00a0from side-to-side.<\/p>\n

Same concept applies\u00a0when you, the\u00a0client, is deeply relaxed. You are\u00a0fully conscious, can hear everything\u00a0I say\u00a0and are\u00a0able to respond to questions asked. It\u00a0feels like… being cradled while\u00a0dozing off with\u00a0a\u00a0sense of serenity and awareness at the same time. Most people\u00a0equate ‘mom’\u00a0to comfort and love.\u00a0As adults, we forget to be more\u00a0present and loving to our inner-child.<\/p>\n

To begin healing,\u00a0gently start using\u00a0the actual word. My mother (____) died 4 years ago. It may be a bit difficult at first yet in time, your\u00a0inner child and the subconscious\u00a0mind begin\u00a0to validate the reality.\u00a0This way instead of feeling a loss, you feel more real and empowered, plus remember and celebrate all the memories (good or bad). The best part, you\u00a0let their spirit free.<\/p>\n

It is good to also forgive her for all the wrongs she did – stop punishing her for you are not punishing her, but yourself. \u00a0In actuality, forgive yourself for holding on to the angst, anger or resentment. Its doing you no good. I am certain she would not want you to feel angry, sad or constantly be yearning\u00a0for her. That’s heavy energy.<\/p>\n

Ask yourself this – “Isn’t it time for me to live life more fully and freely with the ones that are here with me?”
\nI am hoping your answer is: YES – YES it is.\u00a0“You Matter”<\/p>\n

Lovingly,
\nLiza<\/p>\n

If you are curious about how you can make the change, lets have a conversation<\/a><\/strong> to see if I may be able serve you \u2013 even if that means pointing you to other resources that are a better fit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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