{"id":1655,"date":"2012-02-03T10:30:31","date_gmt":"2012-02-03T18:30:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/archive.healwithin.com\/?p=1655"},"modified":"2012-02-03T10:30:31","modified_gmt":"2012-02-03T18:30:31","slug":"finding-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hw.arbpenconsulting.com\/?p=1655","title":{"rendered":"Finding Love"},"content":{"rendered":"

Love<\/strong>.\u00a0 It\u2019s right up there with air, food and water as the most necessary of ingredients for existence. And yet, for many people, it\u2019s the hardest thing to find and perhaps even harder to hold on to. Many of my clients have difficulty expressing love for the fear of getting hurt. The truth is you\u2019re not perfect, and neither is your partner. But you can be perfectly imperfect together.<\/p>\n

It is the imperfections that make us into something beautiful and unique. In many ways, relating to someone or something is mostly choice and perception. I say this because it is possible to be \u201cin love\u201d with someone one day, but unable to be in the same room with them the next. Our feelings did not change, but the way in which we perceive them may have.\u00a0 You choose to making this change happen!<\/p>\n

Start projecting the real You<\/strong>. Your Authentic Self. You will find yourself not only attractive to others, but becoming more attractive within \u2013 on the road to a realistic and satisfying relationship. Being with a committed partner can feel fantastic and safe and all those things in great movies and books. But it\u2019s definitely not the only thing in life worth living for \u2014 it sure doesn\u2019t even guarantee happiness.<\/p>\n

Begin doing things to make finding the right person easier: Make room for him in your life; Be the kind of person who would attract the kind of man you are looking for; and let your social circle know you are ready and willing to be set up. The one thing you need to stop doing \u2014 is obsess about when and whether you\u2019d ever meet Ms. or Mr. Right.<\/p>\n

Obsession in itself is negative energy. When you are consumed with such thoughts and you surround yourself with negativity, thus,\u00a0not living with light.\u00a0\u00a0If and when\u00a0you do\u00a0attract someone, it will be of negative vibes and negativity.\u00a0 Allow yourself to be comfortable and OK with yourself \u2013 because you are just fine!\u00a0 As you begin to smile and accept yourself as you are, you\u2019ll feel lighter and radiate light\u00a0 \u2013\u00a0 and watch magic happen!<\/p>\n

Enlightenment is said to be the key to everything, and it is the key to Intimacy, because that is the goal of true authenticity. Our Ego presents itself through behaviors that include aggression, defensiveness, anger, neediness, manipulation, and avoidance. In working through these issues, trusting ourselves and learning to surrender to the behaviors that form walls around our hearts, we can attain our True Authentic Self.<\/p>\n

Love knows how to form itself.<\/strong> God will do his work if we do ours. Our job is to prepare ourselves for love. When we do, love finds us every time. Being alone is not the same as being lonely.\u00a0 When you feel lonely, pick up a book, go for a walk, call a friend. You never know, perhaps you\u2019ll meet that one very special person on your next\u00a0trail or brisk walk!<\/p>\n

Spirituality is about the intersection of the human and the divine<\/strong>. So not only is there inner work to be done, there\u2019s also outer work to be done. You might open the door to your own house or apartment and take a brutally honest look: Is this someplace that would feel like home?\u00a0 How comfortable am I here?\u00a0 Most importantly, How comfortable am I with myself and my body?<\/p>\n

You have to make a space in your heart, in your mind and in your life in order to create authentic human connection and feel Love Within
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Love is all around us, all the time. Love is the amniotic fluid of the soul. The issue is when issues of the Ego and our constant emphasis on the realm of the body rather than the realm of love, eclipse the experience of True Love.\u00a0 Did you know you can \u201clove\u201d someone deeply and yet not \u201clike\u201d them as a person or agree with their actions? Yes \u2013 it is very possible. When you understand yourself better and remove negative beliefs and experiences through healing within, you\u2019ll be poised to have greater success in relationships.<\/p>\n

The question is: How can you create healthier relationships<\/a>?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hypnotherapy <\/a>can help you transform your pain into acceptance and pleasure, while helping you to create authentic human connections and healthy relationships for life. \u00a0These techniques include:<\/p>\n