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Big or Small, Rejection Affects Us All\u00a0\u2013 Part 1 of 3<\/strong><\/p>\n

Life is about going for things. And when we do, rejection is always a possibility.<\/p>\n

Rejection doesn\u2019t have to be about the big stuff : For adults rejection may be not landing the desired position, not qualifying for the dream home, not being asked to serve on a high powered board or perhaps as simple as not being invited to \u201cthe\u201d private party.<\/p>\n

For teens, their self esteem can be affected<\/a>.\u00a0 Whether it is not getting into the top college, not making the team, or not getting asked to a date or the prom. As a teen, you may be more susceptible as well as vulnerable.\u00a0 Everyday situations can lead to feelings of rejection too, like if your joke didn\u2019t get a laugh, if no one remembered to save you a seat at the lunch table, or if the person you really like talks to everyone but you.<\/p>\n

Feeling rejected is the opposite of feeling accepted. But being rejected (and we have been and will be at times) doesn\u2019t mean you aren\u2019t liked, valued, or important. It just means that one time, in one situation, with one person, things didn\u2019t work out.<\/p>\n

Rejection hurts. But it\u2019s impossible to avoid it altogether. In fact, you don\u2019t want to: People who become too afraid of rejection might hold back from going after something they want. Sure, they avoid rejection, but they\u2019re also 100% guaranteed to miss out on what they want but won\u2019t try for.<\/p>\n

Take time to explore what rejection you are afraid of and what the consequences are for not exploring that possibility.\u00a0\u00a0Our discussion about rejection\u00a0will be split up into 3 post\u2019s & part 2 of 3 will explore how to cope with rejection.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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